Who knew the painful adventure a trip to pick out a Christmas tree would turn into!!
We left the house around 4 PM to go get a Christmas tree. I had been looking forward to it all week and was so excited to have this fun family time. The second I sat in the car something didn't feel right in my groin. I thought maybe I was just sitting funky or the baby was in a bad position, but I had to pull over when the pain got worse. I decided we should just hurry up and get to Smith's (10 minutes away) to get a tree so I could get home.
The pain never really let up much, and of course Jossy was in one of her moods where only MOM could carry her, not dad, so she cried the whole time because I wasn't up to holding her. We picked out a tree (from the few they had left), and practically
froze trying to tie it to the top of the Jeep in the cold rain. About then, a pain started in my right lower back. I immediately thought kidneys. On the drive home, it got SOOO bad that I called Dan (we had taken two separate cars) and told him I thought I'd end up in the ER (but I was thinking I must be exaggerating and it wouldn't really happen.) We got home and I ran to the couch to lay down thinking that would help me feel better. Nope, got worse! Because it was a live tree and the stump had been cut to make it drink water, it HAD to go in water before we could leave anywhere. Dan quickly got the tree in the stand while I withered in pain and bawled on the couch. We then tried several neighbors to see if someone could take the kids but no one was available. Neither was my sister answering her phone (she's only 5 minutes away.) So we had no choice but to take the kids with us to the ER. After a brief passing out spell on my part, we got in the car with them. Dan had to FORCE Jossy in because she didn't want to leave home. So she cried/screamed the entire way there, and I had my window down freezing everyone out because I thought I was going to puke any minute. Thank goodness we don't live too far from the hospital!
Once we got to the ER, it was about 20 minutes before I got some pain meds in an IV (which gave me heart palpitations and made me super dizzy), had an ultrasound done to check my kidneys, bladder, and the baby, and then put me back in the room to wait for results. About that time we finally got a hold of my sister to come get the kids. She picked them up, got them some dinner (they were STARVING), and put them to bed. They had started playing tag in that tiny little ER exam room with all the equipment so it's a good thing we got them out of there when we did. I ended up staying another 2 hours before they released me. They said that kidney stones didn't show up on the ultrasound but they could see my kidney was dilated and I had blood in my urine, both signs of a stone. They said they would normally do a CAT scan to see for sure that's what it is and check size and position and all that, but it's not so advisable to have one with the baby. But if the pain continues they said I may have to have one anyway and see a specialist if things don't improve.
So basically I was sent home with pain meds and told to drink lots of water and wait til it passes, which can take up to a week (assuming it's small enough to pass on its own.) I had a priesthood blessing once I got home which helped me feel better. I took one pain pill around 10 PM last night and am shocked that I haven't had to take one since (though I may have just jinxed myself typing that because now the pain is starting to ramp up), but I still haven't passed the stone. I feel grateful that I haven't had to take any pills today so far and I'm doing okay.
I'm also glad I've been feeling well enough to start decorating that tree we bought because the kids really wanted to last night. While putting the lights on this morning, we were shocked by a little stowaway we found.

Every time we were able to hold this little ladybug, it would fly back into the tree and now we can't find it. Guess it doesn't want to leave.
Maybe this will be a lucky tree after all? :)