I had this plan to only throw "friend" parties at ages 5, 8, 12, and 16. But after Matty's flub of a family-only party this year, I changed my mind. I'm not sure what my plan is anymore. But I let both Lacey and Jossy have parties on off years.
When I first decided to throw her one, I told her she could invite 6-8 friends and we'd just play in the sprinklers or something. But as we made our list we realized so-and-so might find out and get her feelings hurt by not being invited (a feeling I am way too familiar with) so we just kept adding to it and it grew to like 16 invites or something. I figured it was the first week of school being out and surely SOME of them would not be able to come . . . right???
Wrong.
1 kid didn't come. That was it. I ended up having 18 kids there including my own 4 and NO other adult to help out. I had asked someone but she forgot about it and made other plans the day before. Dan had a conference and couldn't get out of it to help me, so Matty was my saving grace. I told him before things started, "Look, you are NOT a kid today! You are an ADULT! You have to think like a grown-up and help me out!" He did awesome and filmed everything for me as well as helping with games, cake, etc. He was a superstar for sure.
Everyone had a good time, especially the birthday girl.
And that's what this was all about anyway. She deserves to be celebrated.























